A wedding marks the most important moment in a couple’s life. Being invited to such an event is an honor, but also a significant responsibility. The truth is, many weddings are compromised because guests don’t understand the level of responsibility they are called to. The good news is that by following a few etiquette rules, you can make a great impression while paying tribute to the couple.
So, you’ve been invited to a wedding but are worried about making a faux pas? Feeling unsure is common among men who don’t have a clear picture of wedding etiquette. That’s why, in this article, we outline 3 wardrobe mistakes to avoid at a wedding.
Ignoring the Dress Code
Unless the event takes place on a beach, in the mountains, or in traditional national attire, you will most likely be expected to wear a suit. Even if many wedding invitations specify the desired dress code, many men treat it as optional when it is, in fact, mandatory. One of the most common ways to disappoint the hosts is to dress below the expected level of formality. This creates a negative contrast between you and the other guests and makes you feel out of place. If your wardrobe isn’t up to the task, it’s better to politely decline the invitation than to attend underdressed.
Unnecessary Showing Off
Some people see attending a wedding as an opportunity to show off with their outfit. This usually means wearing clothes even more elegant than the couple’s. Whether we like it or not, the people who should be the center of attention at a wedding are the bride and groom—not the guests. Confusion often arises when no dress code is indicated on the invitation. Are there differences among men following the same dress code? Yes! The most common code at weddings is Black Tie. However, today it can also be adapted to dark navy shades. For example, a guest in black standing next to a groom in navy can create an unintended clash. Asking the couple about their attire can save you from this mistake.
Wearing an Uncomfortable Suit
Keep in mind that you’ll be dressed for many hours. Music, dancing, and a hearty meal — all need to be accommodated comfortably in your clothing. A comfortable fit, achieved by wearing clothes tailored to your size, is essential. Shoes made from stiff leather (like alligator, ostrich, or cordovan) are a recipe for disaster. Instead, opt for calf leather shoes and wear them two to three times before the wedding. If they have a leather sole with a thin rubber coating, even better. This way, you’ll be ready for a full night of dancing.
In summary, ignoring the dress code, showing off unnecessarily, and wearing an uncomfortable suit are the mistakes every wedding guest should avoid. Steering clear of these pitfalls can spare you from embarrassment and help make the wedding an unforgettable event.
Are you aware of these mistakes but unsure about the ABCs of a ceremonial suit? We’ve covered that in a dedicated article HERE.
