In an era of increasingly diverse formal events, men face the challenge of choosing the right outfit. A flawless suit and carefully selected accessories can make all the difference at weddings, cocktail parties, or other special occasions. However, confusion and lack of inspiration often bring self-doubt.
In this article, we’ll discuss the most common formal events and their corresponding dress codes. You’ll receive both a traditional and a modern outfit idea for each situation, along with subtle style elements that make a man stand out. Finally, we’ll highlight common mistakes that can undermine your look, so you can make the right choices.
Classic Weddings
For weddings, the dress code is based on elegance and refinement. Traditionally, a black-tie suit with a well-tailored jacket and trousers, complemented by a matching tie and pocket square (see cover image), is recommended. This creates a flawless look, with details such as cufflinks and an elegant watch adding extra style.
For a modern approach, opt for a slim-fit suit in pastel shades, which brings a fresh, contemporary air. A shirt with a narrow collar and a minimalist tie are also inspired choices. A frequent mistake is choosing a suit that is either too informal or too exaggerated, which can attract unwanted attention.
Corporate Events
For corporate events, the outfit should convey professionalism and respect. Traditionally, a gray or navy suit, paired with a white or light blue shirt and a classic tie, communicates seriousness.
A modern alternative could be an Italian-cut suit with patch pockets, paired with a neutral shirt and playful accessories such as a sporty watch and a velvet belt (see image 1). Especially in today’s environment, such as a tech startup, dress codes are less rigid, and a fully casual outfit might even be appropriate—see ideas HERE or HERE. Whatever choice you make, it is essential to match colors and textures between shoes and accessories.
Cocktail Parties
At cocktail parties, the outfit should be elegant but not overly formal. Traditionally, this means a classic jacket paired with a white shirt and a slim tie, creating a sophisticated appearance.
For a modern style, choose a slim-fit suit, light or dark, worn without a tie (see image 2), in a textured or checked fabric. Subtle accessories, such as a discreet bracelet or two-tone shoes (spectator shoes), highlight attention to detail. Common mistakes include choosing an outfit that is either too rigid or too casual, making it inappropriate for the event’s setting.
Gala Events
At gala events (white tie), elegance is paramount. Traditionally, a tailcoat with a white bow tie, a shirt with a plastron, and a waistcoat are worn, with fine details like gold cufflinks adding refinement.
A frequent mistake is wearing accessories from other dress codes (especially watches), which can disrupt the elegant look. Wearing a watch might imply concern with the passage of time, which could be seen as disrespectful to the host and event. White tie remains the most conservative dress code and does not allow innovations. You can innovate, but then it’s no longer white tie. Classic lacquered shoes and a woody-scented cologne will enhance both your outfit and presence.
Each formal event requires adherence to specific dress codes. Whether you choose a traditional or modern outfit, the details make all the difference. By avoiding common mistakes and paying attention to every style element, you can create a successful and harmonious look. Thus, whether preparing for a wedding, a cocktail party, or a corporate event, your outfit will reflect your refinement and respect for your own image. Need extra help? Don’t worry—contact us HERE, and we’ll take care of the rest!
